Memory foam mattresses have been a 'must have' for the bedroom for quite some time. They have been praised time and time again for being one of the healthiest and most comfortable ways to get a great night's sleep, as they shape to the sleeper's body. However, it's important to remember the shape-shifting properties of a memory foam mattress before you invest in one - in other words, that it takes them a little while before they 'know' your body. The memory foam may not be exactly as soft as you want it to begin with, but don't panic - there are steps you can take to move things along. To learn more about memory foam mattresses and to find the answer to the question 'do memory foam mattresses get softer?', read on.

Do memory foam mattresses get softer?

Many people fear they have made a mistake once they receive their memory foam mattress and hop on it, only to realise that it's harder than they thought it would be. There's no need to worry! The initial hardness won't last forever.  Providing you with the time and patience to decompress, you will eventually find the mattress becomes the comfortable sleep aid you envisioned when you first purchased it.

Something many people don't know before purchasing a memory foam mattress is that it is temperature-sensitive. This means that they react to your body heat and mould to your body shape, which is why such patience is required to get it to the level of softness you need for your body. If you can remain patient, then you will be enjoying the best night's sleep of your life in no time!

That being said, there are ways you can make your mattress softer if you just don't feel you can wait. While time is still the best way to soften up that mattress of yours, you can take the following steps to speed up the process.

Warm it up

As your memory foam mattress is temperature sensitive, it makes sense that when you raise the temperature in your bedroom, the mattress will soften up faster. This will work especially well if you're laying on the mattress with the heating on. Just remember that if you leave the heating on as you sleep, you'll probably struggle to get a good night's snooze. This is because the ideal sleeping temperature is 18.3 degrees Celsius, or 65 degrees Fahrenheit. If you have your bedroom warmer than this as you try to sleep, you'll likely complain of poor quality sleep, but it won't be down to your mattress.

You could even try blasting the hairdryer on the mattress for a little while before you get into bed, but make sure you're not overzealous by applying too much heat to the mattress. Again, you should try to soften your mattress gently.

Jump on the bed.

Ok, maybe it's not a good idea to jump on the bed, but putting more of your weight on the mattress and sort of 'kneading' should help you to soften things up much faster. Crawling and walking on the mattress could help to soften it up, and if you do this enough, it should feel just right for your perfect night's sleep. Just imagine that you are kneading bread with your knees or feet and go to town!

This method is actually one of the most effective ways of softening your mattress, so it's worth a shot before trying the other techniques. Just remember that it's better to take it off the frame so you can avoid damaging your bed slats as you do this. If the mattress is too heavy for you to take it on and off the bed frame, stick to walking on it on your knees to stay safe - that is unless you're confident that the foundations of your bed are strong enough. The last thing you want to do is damage your bed frame in the pursuit of making sure your mattress is comfortable - although, with a solid metal bed frame, you'd be hard-pressed to break it by standing on your mattress.

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Use a memory foam topper

A memory foam topper is one of the easiest ways to customise your mattress and can help to make it instantly more suitable for your night's sleep. Toppers don't need a breaking in period and can instantly make your mattress so much more comfortable. Plus, they can be pretty affordable, too. Many people won't sleep without a mattress topper, so it could be worth the investment regardless. Eventually, you might want to take your mattress topper off, but for now, this will allow you to get a high quality sleep that will ensure you wake up with no aches and pains and a clear head, ready to tackle the day.


How long should it take for the mattress to soften?

The majority of mattresses can take anywhere from 30-90 days to soften up. Think of it as like a new pair of shoes. It can take time for the mattress to learn how to conform to your body. While this may put you off purchasing a new mattress in the first place, remember that in the long run, you'll be getting a much better quality of sleep. If your body is not adequately supported, then you'll do more harm than good using an old mattress. In general, you should replace mattresses every 6-8 years. Use that as a rough guideline, but take the manufacturers instructions into account, too.

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If you're looking for the perfect memory foam mattress for your needs, bed frame, or both, get in touch with us to find out more. We can give you advice based on our expertise, and in no time at all, you'll have a high-quality bed that lasts for years and gives you the awesome night's sleep you've been dreaming about. We hope to hear from you soon!

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